Dating Websites: don’t go there expecting to find love!

There are so many dating websites & options online when it comes to hooking up & finding someone for let’s call it as it is: a casual fling or one night stand.

Dating sites like Tinder, Bumble, e harmony & match offer more or less the same thing for many people. Of course, there have been the odd success story & long-term relationship as a result of going on these sites.

In 2019, Bumble seems to be the new player on the block, but everyone who has used Tinder is now on Bumble so it’s pretty much the same thing, just dressed up differently.

But overall, if we are being honest here they are all about being really casual with no strings attached or guilt involved. They are also the playground of married men wanting to cheat on their wives.

Stop wasting time on Tinder & Bumble

It’s rampant with guys creating fake profiles, ditching the wedding ring and sneaking behind their wives back for a bit of fun. They end up deceiving the women they are meeting and even worse their wives. If you think it doesn’t happen, think again! These dating sites are massive and people go there to fulfill their fantasies, desires and cravings.

So many people who have been on dates on these sites always complain about the same thing (especially on Tinder) that is: the guys are on there to sleep around.

So this leaves a massive gap in the whole dating website scene for people who are genuinely looking for a relationship and long-term partner. Dating apps simply do not live up to all the hype and expectations and the trail of disappointed, frustrated men and women is huge and growing al the time. They’ve given it a go but just can’t seem to make it work.

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If your part of this wave of people who are fed up with being lied to on these dating sites & apps then there is a solution and there is hope out there to find a real connection.

It’s called a matchmaker or dating service. Yes, I know were a dating agency but this is the reality of the dating environment. Singles are genuinely upset and fed up with the whole scene. It’s a farce and they are finding it difficult to meet people especially if they’re not going to clubs or bars. Plus their single mates are already married and leading separate lives.

The perfect solution is a matchmaker.


Because you let a professional take care of your love life. Pretty much like anything in life; if you want the best results you have to leave it to the experts and the same rings true for your personal life. You’ll go to doctors, specialists, physios, personal trainers, dentists, so why not a matchmaker.

For some people this is a really foreign concept and may even be a bit embarrassing but believe me when I tell you, your not alone. We get calls everyday from people that have relied on dating sites for years hoping to find Mr or Mrs Right, going on date after date and the result is still the same; they are single and getting unhappier with each and every date.

A matchmaker can get you out of a dating slump and put you back in the drivers seat of your love life. Yes, you have to pay for this service and to be part of their database but if you can afford it, it’s well worth it. Life’s far far too short to waste time with people you know your not going to have a connection with.

Also read: Dating in 2019 – what are your options

So, don’t drop your standards, don’t meet people who are not on the same page as you, don’t get depressed and put your love life on hold. If you want to hook up we are probably not the right place for you but, if you want to put the effort into meeting someone then we are definitely one of the best dating options available for you.

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Robyn Nind is a dating coach and matchmaker at Blue Label Life. Robyn has helped countless singles find love and a partner.

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