Many people tell me they felt like they were on an interview on their first date, or they felt interrogated, or under pressure. When we ask question after question there isn’t any room for romance, fun, passion, or flow. Treat your date like you would a new friend, open first. The best way to get to know someone is to show yourself first, talk and about what makes you feel good, what inspires you, what makes you happy, then the energy and connection will begin and then ask questions
The best way to learn about someone is to show yourself first
Robyn Nind is a dating coach and matchmaker at Blue Label Life. Robyn has helped countless singles find love and a partner.