Give up the prince and find your man

aee2f6950342a96c26c76b6d40200f1dThe perfect man, your prince charming, DOESN’T EXIST. Because if he did, he would be MINE!!

What women want… but can’t have

Many single women want a man with Prince like proportions. Not like the tiny purple musical one, but a man who is heroic yet tender, strong yet sensitive, romantic, successful in his professional life, stylish and sophisticated, down to earth, someone that makes them feel safe yet provides excitement and entertainment.

Someone who works around the house, occasionally cooks and cleans, who is dependable and doesn’t lie, and man who is good in bed and makes you laugh. Have I missed anything on the shopping list?

Well if this man does exist, and you find him, I suggest you keep him under lock and key and invite him to male only gatherings.

What men want…and you can give them

When you give up your fairytale fantasies and accept that men have flaws, just as you do (shock horror), they will offer you substantially more of themselves.

Understanding a man creates power.

Men adore women that accept and understand them. A man gives his heart completely to a woman he feels he can trust and be valued for both his strengths and weaknesses. The fundamental key to a man’s passion is his desire to commit himself to a woman who can understand and accept him.

This means understanding and knowing who he really is under the bravado – what drives him, motivates him, what he does to avoid fear.  It’s about accepting him as a whole, forgiving his annoying habits including his bad fashion sense, lack of patience, poor time management, morning breath, lack of six pack or height  etc.

Accepting him for who he is

This will leave you with a man who works hard to be the best provider, giving you more loyalty and appreciation for you. Men are more critical than they let women know.  Accepting him will give him a tremendous boost leaving him feeling loved and good in her eyes resulting in being more receptive to your needs.

Allow him to confide in you

By talking about his dreams, goals, conflicts and frustrations, he will be able to resolve them and open his heart to you. Men have a strong need for partnership with their women. They often find it more difficult to meet friends in their adult years, so by giving him this feeling, he will be your soul mate.

Help him become more expressive and to open up

This is a key development of trust and will help him to be more connected to you and the relationship. Communicate your willingness to know more about how he feels, what he thinks about, his doubts, insecurities and triumphs. Take an interest in his plans, dreams for the future and obstacles to overcome. Acceptance, trust and communication is the foundation of all fulfilling relationships.

So give up your prince and get to know your man. Understand and accept him for who he is, and before you know it, you’ll have a rich relationship with a partner who, in turn, will be your real prince.

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Robyn Nind is a dating coach and matchmaker at Blue Label Life. Robyn has helped countless singles find love and a partner.

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