Ladies, Here are 3 Reasons Why You Should Make The First Move
Do you ever feel like your waiting around for that guy to ask you out and it seems like it’s never going to happen?
And as a result you end up moping and let time slip by while around asking yourself why isn’t he just taking action? Do you end up with formulating out of this world conclusions and that just bring yourself down in the process!
Time to put a STOP to that!
Perhaps you need to take a leap of faith and make a change, all you have got to do is take charge and go and get that man!
Yes ladies, I am talking about making the first move.
Whilst it may feel counter intuitive it actually works! As a successful woman you know what you want in the business world, you set goals, put together a plan and take action and guess what? It gives you amazing results doesn’t it?
So imagine if you applied the same success principles in your personal life, things would change wouldn’t they?
Imagine if you could have the same success in your love life as your career? Well You Can!
Stop associating yourself with the talked about, allegedly women’s logic that says: “When a woman likes a guy, she does nothing and expect the guy to magically know about it“.
Sounds familiar right? Because we are all guilty of this, society has etched in us the idea that women should never make the first move, that women should just wait and wait and wait.
Times have changed, he isn’t psychic, the smart girls are out there taking action!
I am telling you now ladies, that you can make the first move starting today!
Here are the reasons why:
Confidence Spells Attractive
Be bold. A confident woman knows her worth and is self-assured. Confidence is the new sexy so I have heard! I bet most men want their women strong and daring. Believe me when I say, making the first move is empowering!
Avoid Waiting in Vain
So you like him? Go ahead and make the first move, introduce yourself, spark an interesting conversation and perhaps exchange numbers.
Right there and then you will know if he is also into you by observing his body language or how he responds to you. If he is not interested then move on, at least you don’t get stuck with what ifs or could have beens.
Ladies, you have to consider that men sometimes get shy too.
Don’t Miss a Wonderful Opportunity
Just do it! It might be risky, it might be scary but then again, you will never know until you try.
You can always choose to sit around and wait but why choose something unproductive and possibly miss a chance with a partner you have been wanting to be with?
There will always be a voice in your head that will keep on haunting you as to why you did not try at all. And hey, it’s not like you are baring your soul for the whole world to see, a simple and sweet “hi” might be enough, imagine that two-letter word create a magnitude of an impact in your life if something actually would happen.
We are all scared of rejection, men and women alike. But according to Dr. Steve Maraboli, a keynote speaker about Behavioural Science that every time you think you are being rejected from something good, you are actually being redirected to something better!
I don’t know about you but I certainly like to be redirected to something better ;-)
So ladies, with that thought in mind, would you make the first move today?