Discover the secret to attracting your perfect man!
Have you ever heard the expression, “you get what you give”? Well there might just be more truth to that than you think!
Mr Bob Procter has been working on and studying the laws of manifestation, visualization and the laws of attraction and what, you may ask, has he discovered? Well the powers of attraction are contained almost entirely in your own mind!
The brain is an incredibly powerful mechanism, capable of monitoring your mood and perception. How you perceive someone or how you allow yourself to perceive them can have a significant impact on your success in love.
If you are constantly sending out negative vibrations in the world then that is exactly what you can expect back. Proctor argues that when you send out a charge of energy your brain takes on the same amount of new similar energy. If you send out negative energy that is what your brain will use to recharge itself; likewise if you send out positive energy that is what you can expect back!
Proctor has stated, ‘Thinking is a very powerful form of energy – thought waves are cosmic waves that penetrate all time and space.’ So how do we harness this energy to attract our tall drink of water?
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The Law of Attraction dictates that if you think negatively about something consistently you are setting yourself up for disappointment, the key is to allow yourself to muse over your desires but in a positive manner, with hope and energy. As a result you increase your chances of fulfilling these desires. Think negatively and you will receive negative results, think positively and enjoy the benefits.
It is even possible to be more specific in your desires, maybe you don’t just want a man but you want a funny, kind, warm man, if this is the case then these are the traits you need to display yourself. For this reason, if you are in a bad place emotionally it is best not to look for your life partner; you will most likely attract someone who is also experiencing trouble. When you are ready, and positive and happy send out those vibes and see what comes a knocking!
Here are some key tips to how to attract your perfect man:
– Know what character traits you want in your man
– Know what character traits you don’t want in your man
– Don’t focus on the negative traits but just shelve them away in the back of your mind
– Focus on the positive, channel positive energy about yourself, your self worth and what you think you deserve
– Channel positive energy about what you want, what you are open to and how ready you are to receive it. When you go on your first date try and be as relaxed as you can s he will pick up on this energy.
The most important thing to remember when it comes to attracting your perfect man is not to give up, as soon as you lose that wonderful positive energy you chances of finding your mystery man drop right down. Set those positive vibrations free and get ready for love!
Robyn Nind is a dating coach and professional matchmaker. She’s been helping women throughout Australia attarct the right type of guy.