How to meet a man or woman in my age group who wants the same things I do?

Great question! I am asked this question on a daily basis.

My response is, think about what it is you are interested in? Write a list, of the type of person you are looking for and go and find them!

Is it an active man or woman, who loves the water, the gym, is family orientated and has a passion for wine?  Your first step to success is to get out there amongst it, your next love will not come knocking at your door, cliché I know but you really have to be proactive.

Do something different! Men get out there and start dancing classes, women love to dance and there is an overwhelming amount of women in Salsa classes, Tango and so forth so head down to your local dance company. This is a wonderful exercise, you will get into shape, meet some fantastic ladies and potentially the right one! Art classes and interior design are great too, I recently spent 6 weeks at an interior design course, with over 30 women and only 1 man, a true haven for men!

Women, think of all the places and activities you would like your man to be interested in.

If it’s drinking excessively late nights and time out with the boys a nightclub or bar is your best option, if you are like most women you would rather avoid that!

Be creative seek out someone with similar interests. Take a course sailing the harbour, you will have fun and meet wonderful new people, imagine the connections you will make!! Or try your hand at golf, Golf lessons or time at the driving range to connect you with a large number of men! Even if you’re over 60 and looking for a connection you have to take the first step and get out there. It won’t come to you. Take the initiative and look at new opportunities and ways to meet new people.

Try, swimming clubs, get involved in a charity, you will find someone with a good heart and generosity. The gym is another fantastic place to meet someone of the opposite sex!

More and more am I seeing great-looking athletic men joining my yoga class!

Men and women of all ages there are so many singles out there looking for love, it is all about being open, engaging and being proactive. Join a networking group, take up a new hobby, ask a friend if they know of anyone eligible or join a professional agency.

Remember both men and women love interesting people, it is a win-win situation while you take up new interests you expand your social circle and increase your chances of finding the one!

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Robyn Nind is a dating coach and matchmaker at Blue Label Life. Robyn has helped countless singles find love and a partner.

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