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Dating Advice for Women That Makes You More Attractive

Dating Advice for Women That Makes You More Attractive

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The Game Changer Technique For Women That Makes You More Attractive

Want some dating advice for women that would make you more attractive? What would you do if you knew you could have the man of your dreams supporting you, loving you, and genuinely adoring every part of you?

Wouldn’t that mean you’d have the confidence of a queen, imagine the possibilities!

What if you knew how to magnetize your man and draw him super close to you, and at the same time, everything in your life started working for you so effortlessly, and your dreams fast became a reality?

It would be fabulous, wouldn’t it?

Poor decision-making and stinking thinking hold you back from the results you deserve. If you haven’t found Mr Right yet, it’s not your fault! It’s your thinking, and you’ve been applying outdated techniques up until now.

I believe no matter your situation, whether you’re the world’s biggest dating disaster, men don’t commit to you, or even worse, you keep dating the wrong men and end up feeling broken, it doesn’t matter. That is all about to change for you if you apply my secret formula.

Where there’s a will, there’s a way!

Look at the past, don’t stare at it, and implement small changes to create your desired life.  It’s the tiny things you do now that create the greatest results.

In my training, I  teach you how to have an ultra-sexy x-factor where not only do men want to flock to you, but you’ll also be more popular with women.

If you apply my game-changer techniques, your dating and social life will thrive, you’ll excel in your career, and most importantly, you will feel so happy and calm within. In fact, you’ll glow like a goddess!

Everybody wants to be around a goddess! Now that doesn’t mean being a supermodel. What it does mean is being the best version of you.

Nigella Lawson is a lady that does this well; men and women ogle over her. She stops traffic because she is sexy in her mind, which means she can’t help but ooze charm externally, which is why her presence is so sexy! She is a woman in her 50s, and whilst she is beautiful, she isn’t a supermodel.

Nigella is attractive because she is passionate and positive, lives in the moment, and truly enjoys simple pleasures.

I started drinking “Lady Gray tea” because of this lady.

I remember the commercial; she was so seductive and sensual.  I wanted to experience the tea; the feeling I was getting as she described it drew me in.

That’s the key – it’s the feeling you give others when they are around you.

The game-changer technique that makes you more attractive is making your man feel like a million dollars in your presence.

When you make a man feel good, he naturally wants to spend more time with you.

Show your man appreciation, tell him what you like about him, and be playful. If you bring out your inner child, it is so refreshing for him to be in your presence.

Remember, all day long; he feels the pressure of work, the stress of traffic and the fast pace of life we live in.

If you make him feel good, he will move mountains for you!

Goddess Appeal Defined:

  • It’s a state of absolute confidence, calmness, security, and internal happiness. There is no ego; it is all heart space full of passion. A goddess takes full responsibility for her life and understands she is where she is because of her decisions; she also knows she is in control and can change things instantly.

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How To Date When You Want To Have Kids

How To Date When You Want To Have Kids

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How To Date When You Want To Have Kids

How To Date When You Want To Have Kids

Family is where life begins and love never ends, and having one is a priceless treasure. In your journey towards love and partnership, you begin to strongly desire to start a family or at least most women do. You dream to have kids of your own, when you are so ready to become a mother, the critical question is, is your significant other ready to handle such life-changing and challenging role? You can learn How To date when you want to have kids.

While some men and women admittedly don’t want kids, some envision themselves as parents. And you don’t just usually go on dates without thinking of a better future together. You find love with the hopes of having a serious and lasting relationship with a person you hope to start a family with.

Building a family together and wanting to have kids are complex topics which need thorough discussion. For someone who may not be ready for this kind of responsibility, the idea can be scary. So how do you communicate it to your partner? How do you let your date know that won’t send him running and screaming out the door?

How to Communicate Your Desire to Have Kids

Communicating your desire to have a kid needs proper timing. It has no place during first nor second date conversations. But there must be something with your date which made you want him in the first place. Is he the guy you hope to be with? To start a family with? As time goes by, you start to ask questions that only you can answer. You have to assess and be sure that you want this man to be the father of your children. If you are certain about him then be confident in telling him your desire of wanting to have kids.

Choose the Right Timing

Timing is relevant, choose to tell him when you are both relaxed and ready for a serious conversation. Keep in mind that it’s important to relay it in a way that he doesn’t feel forced into a decision and that it will still be his choice. Tell him directly, loud and clear: “I feel I am ready to become a mother.” But always be ready for the outcome, be prepared for his reaction. He can either accept or reject the idea. Be open and gently ask for reasons. If he is not ready, it is better that you give him time to think about it. You may be hurt with his answer but be calm. You don’t want to rush and force him into something because it will only be disastrous.

Talk about it, you both have to assess your situation, are you financially, emotionally and mentally ready for the responsibility? You have to understand that having a baby is a big step that will change your relationship as a couple. A lot can happen, a lot can change.

Accept the Decision

After some time, you have to accept what he has decided. If he runs, then he’s doing you a favor, open your door to someone else. Your goals aren’t heading in the same direction and it is vital in any relationship to be heading in the same direction especially when it comes to procreation and family. It can mean he is not the right man for you.

How to date when you want to have kids? Be upfront and honest and don’t compromise.

The right man will want to have you as her lifetime partner and will want you to become the mother of his children.

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Learn to Trust Again in Your Love Life

Learn to Trust Again in Your Love Life

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Relationships are founded on mutual love and trust.

Without the other, a relationship would cease to exist.

It has been proven that love is not enough in a lasting relationship; there are other relevant components to a successful relationship, like trust.

Indeed, trust takes years to build but only seconds to break; what is unfortunate is it can be unrepairable. What destroys trust, then? It can be infidelity, heartbreak and other kind of betrayal.

When Your Trust Has Been Broken in a Relationship

In a relationship, when your trust has been broken, it is unthinkable to learn to trust again. You end up trying to mend a broken heart and the many other broken pieces of yourself. Who wouldn’t be? The person who is supposed to protect and love you has just betrayed you. And you resort not to trusting again, afraid to be repeatedly broken, a defence commonly used to protect oneself from being hurt all over again. Quora has a good feed article on this called: Why does trust take years to build, seconds to break, and forever to repair?

But while you feel crushed and angry, the only thing that can make you really better is to accept the betrayal and, with time, to forgive. To be able to move on, you have to take a leap of faith and try to trust again. You have to remember that in this life, we are meant to move forward and not be stuck on our heartbreaks.

Also read: Tips to Overcome Your Insecurity to Find Love

Learn to Trust Again for Yourself

Yes, you should learn to trust again, not only for your potential partner but most importantly for yourself. We have all been there before, maybe to a different extent and experience, but imagine your life filled with bitterness and doubt. Do not detach yourself from the world. Go out and try to trust again with these practical steps:

1. Time heals all wounds

This may sound a cliché, but it is true. With time comes healing, and with time comes better days. Do not jump into another relationship without giving yourself time to heal. You are hurt, you are broken, you are mad, feel everything, you want to cry, then cry. Allow yourself to think things through. The most authentic way to fully move on is to be able to experience the heartbreak and not cover it with other temporary relationships.

2. Meet new people

This is the best time to meet new people and make friends. Perhaps when you are ready, date casually to have fun and enjoy other people’s company. Or better yet, spend time with your family.

3. Take it easy

You have just been hurt; take it easy on yourself. If you have found someone interesting, explain to him that it may take time for you to open yourself once again. Be patient with your healing and allow yourself to trust again, especially allow someone to earn your trust.

4. Share your story

To make a potential partner understand your situation, you must tell your story. It is important that you communicate about your fears and expectations.

5. Be fair

Remember that it would be unfair to compare your present to your past. That is why it is very important to fully heal before you go into another serious relationship to avoid bringing your past hurts with you, which can affect your relationship.

 6. Be positive

Trusting again will not be easy, but it is the only thing left to do to move on. Consider your happiness and your self-worth. Always be positive about everything; it can make your situation easier, with fewer burdens and fewer worries. You are worth to be happy again.

So, learn to trust again. If you continue to have some difficulties and would like some free advice, register with Blue Label Life for a free session with a dating expert and learn to trust again!

How To Enchant Men Effortlessly And Magnetise Attraction

How to Attract Men Effortlessly

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How To Attract Men Effortlessly

Want to learn how to attract men effortlessly? Women can turn out to be modern-day enchantresses. Women who are very interesting and beautiful with their natural feminine charm and character. Yes, you can enchant a man effortlessly, because you hold a magic to captivate a man with your confidence and personality. Read through this guide and you will find out how to enchant men effortlessly and magnetise attraction
So do you have a special connection with a man whom you want to be committed to? Magnetise his attraction and follow these alluring steps to make him fall in love with you:

How To Enchant Men Effortlessly And Magnetise Attraction
Entice him with your Beauty

You don’t need to be perfect to look great. Men are visual creatures, they get attracted to what they see and when they see you enticing they will definitely come close to know more about your character. Be sure to ready your smile when he does. But remember looks cannot maintain his attraction, you have to have a charming character as well.

That Perfume!

Captivate him with that wonderful smell. It has been psychologically proven that consistently wearing the same scent can make you unforgettable. Put on that signature scent of yours and when he smells that fragrance, he will only be reminded of you!

Tantalize him with your Touch

Tease him with a gentle touch and he will instantly feel more at ease with you. Show him you are in parallel in all aspects with a touch so that he’ll feel connected, after all love is about intimacy.

Listen!

Men aren’t verbal, but when they are, be sure to listen. Hear what he has to say and open you heart for him. He’ll feel calm and he will instantly feel how valuable your presence is.

Bewitch him with Genuine Interest

Dr. Ann Demarais, co-author of First Impressions: What You Don’t Know About How Others See You, says that “People are flattered when you find them appealing – and they naturally reciprocate.” Show genuine interest about his life, his family and friends. This shows how much you care about a person and what he might be going through.

Be Interesting

You don’t need to pretend to be interesting. Your personality and confidence can do it for you. Engage him in stimulating conversations to keep him coming back for more.
Maintain his attraction and keep him falling in love with you! Be the enchantress you always were!

You are a confident and beautiful woman who can totally charm a man! So do you now know “How To Enchant Men Effortlessly And Magnetise Attraction”

If you want to know more about how to enchant a man, come take a peek at my newest e-book, How To Make A Man Commit: Your Ultimate Guide To Capturing The Man Of Your Dreams And Keeping Him. In the book, I have commitment secrets that help you connect with your man on a deep emotional level so that you magnetise him forever!

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7 Essential First Date Questions

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7 Essential First Date Questions

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First dates don’t have to be daunting. Sometimes no matter how unpredictable the outcome is, first dates remain an essential part of having a serious and lasting relationship. Good impressions always count because it can signify a great beginning, so what are the 7 essential first date questions you need to ask?

Keep in mind though, that dating should be a fun and exciting time, so take things slowly and remember to breathe. Perhaps lay off on the overeager questions, as much as possible avoid too deep conversations and keep it free flowing. You should keep the conversation light and fun to make yourselves both comfortable and you will eventually find out hints to determine your compatibility with each other.

Aside from aiming to have a good and clean appearance on your first date, show interest by asking questions to keep the conversations going, it may be hard at first but just listen intently to show your date your genuine interest.

So are you ready to make that good impression? Be yourself, ready that smile and ask these questions on your first date. Let’s start on our 7 essential first date questions you need to ask.

1. What’s your favorite dessert?

This is simple yet sweet. You can never go wrong with this question, I mean who doesn’t love desserts? You might be able to bring one if you’re lucky to have a next date!

2. Do you love to travel?

This topic is interesting which can definitely keep the conversation rolling. Know the places your date has been or the places they want to go, then you can see if you have common interests or common places that you can both talk about.

3. What do you find attractive?

Hoping they will answer “YOU”? You are on your first date so maybe? This lets you know what they likes or what they find pleasing.

4. What do you do for a living?

Do you think this question matters? Yes of course it does, because you will find out if she’s passionate about her work or positive about her profession or if they are driven to achieve what they want in life.

5. What is number one on your bucket list?

Know what she really wants to pursue or what she’s looking forward to.

6. Who is your role model?

You’ll eventually get a hint of who they are and what they want by who they looks up to. Her decisions may be the result of wanting to achieve the life they really hopes for.

 7. Do you have close family?

This question opens the door for your date to talk about their family. It can give you an amazing insight into a person as to their relationship with their family. Do they want to have a family in the future? This is essential as you need to know if you are both on the same page with regards to your future.

 There may be many other questions that may arise, however these 7 essential first date questions you need to ask are a great starting point. Remember to be yourself and be prepared for her questions as well, these never pretend and never lie because even if it’s just a first date, you are building your character and showing your personality which would land you her trust to maybe able to proceed to a second date. All the best of luck to you!

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What to Expect when Dating a Single Mother

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What to Expect when Dating a Single Mother

What should one expect when dating a single mother? A single mother has a backbone made of steel and a heart made of gold. Contemplate on that and see what to expect when dating a single mother! They are beautiful creatures who have nothing but utmost love for their children, they are strong and independent. But while a single mother is remarkable just the way she is, she is also single who may still be hoping for her one true love.Mothers love

Now if you are dating a single mother, expect a bumpy ride on a busy street. It’s not going to be easy but as what I have just said, a single mother has a heart of gold so it’s all going to be worth it.

Understand Her Priorities

You have to anticipate that single mothers love their children more than anything in the world. Her kid will always be her number one priority so don’t be jealous with all the affection and attention she has with her child, remember that she is staying strong and doing everything she can so her child doesn’t feel that he is missing a parent. Like her, you should be emotionally, mentally and physically ready.

Make Her Feel It’s Worth Her Time

Her time is gold because she has a responsibility that naturally, should be shared by two people, but she is handling it all on her own, so if you go out on a date with her, prepare ahead of time, make her feel special and make her feel that it’s worth her time.

You should make her feel invigorated, because almost always she gets consumed with her responsibilities that she forgets to have time for herself, she gets exhausted but she just keeps on moving, it is best to know that you are there to support and understand her.

Single Mother Comes in a Package

You have to understand that she puts her child’s best interest before her own, she tends to guard and protect herself because she has a life that she’s responsible for, if she cannot function well then that would affect her child. Expect that she will be happy if you find it in your heart to love her child because with a single mother, everything comes in a package, she’s not performing solo but a duet she will be doing with her child for the rest of her life.

If you are not ready to handle her situation or at least you are not brave enough to try, then don’t! In the first place, single mothers don’t need saving, they are not damsels in distress, they are queens in their own right, independent, smart and strong! But if you are valiant enough to properly behave with her then you might as well be her king.

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The Best Relationship Advice We Have Ever Received

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The Best Relationship Advice We Have Ever Received

Relationships are anything but easy! It takes effort, time, trust, respect and a whole lot of best relationship advice ever (2)love. It faces difficulties and challenges. Yes it is rewarding, but don’t expect to always have a smooth ride, there will be bumps, there will be crossroads and there will be dead ends.

Sometimes relationships get confusing but here are the best relationship advice we have ever received. Relationships enable individuals to become better with their connections and feel better about themselves.

1.Take a Risk!

I was advised by a friend to not be consumed with fear of rejection and pain. I once was involved with a man, who is in a relationship with someone else, though we both felt the same attraction and admiration for each other, I remain distant because I was never his choice. Years passed and we met again, we were both single at that time. We have always been comfortable and compatible with each other, but I was scared, I was rejected by him before and it will be too painful to face it all again. But my friend insisted that I should believe in second chances, that I should take a risk and I did, and now we are happily married.

2.  Be Yourself.

As cliché as it sounds, it’s still a timeless advice. I always try so hard during first dates, I overdressed, I speak too enthusiastically and just would pretend to like whatever my date is saying which is totally a mistake, everything would turn out tragically. Good thing I listened and threw away the facade. I should just be proud of myself and let others see who I really am.

3. Be confident.

I would usually doubt myself in relationships, believing I’m not good enough to even have one. I had a low self-esteem which can be clearly seen by others. When a friend of mine told me I should believe more in myself and be optimistic, I was hesitant, but thinking that how can others believe in me when I’m having a hard time believing in myself? I am a changed woman now, opening myself to others and going on dates.

4. Stop Waiting.

I was very idealistic, I believed in ever after and prince charmings. I was used to waiting until I noticed why am I the only one who’s not in a relationship? Precisely because I was just waiting, I wasn’t doing anything at all and expecting that someone would come and save me. Now, I make the moves!

5. Communicate!

This is probably one of the most important factors to have a lasting and rewarding relationship. When you are comfortable enough to talk and listen to your partner, you’ll survive challenges!

6. Don’t Over-Analyze!

For quite some time, I have been a failure with dating because I worry too much, I was too concern of what my dates think of me that I lost sight of enjoying the experience. Bet I was a stiff and a bore during my dates. But that was before.

7. Be a Gentleman.

I never forget what my parents told me, to always be a gentleman no matter how times change. I’m glad I did though because I am married to a woman who deserves all the honor and respect in the world.

Do you have an advice? Feel free to comment.

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How to Improve Your Self Confidence when Dating?

How to Improve Your Self Confidence when Dating?

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Even the most confident people can be overcome by nerves on a first date.

Whether you are feeling a bout of full-blown nervousness or simply a little bit of jitters, you too can have confidence when you are dating simply by knowing what to focus on and being prepared.

You really  can boost your confidence when dating to a whole new level, so sit back, relax and apply these tips:

Be Prepared!

You are not preparing for a battle; you are prepping up for a date, so familiarize yourself with possible topics of conversation. It’s a first date, so don’t expect your date to be philosophical about everything. If you come well prepared, everybody will think you are confident.

Also Read: Top 10 Secrets to Increase Attraction on a First Date

Look Your Best!

The statement “Dress to Impress” sounds all too familiar, and it may just be applicable on a first date. I’m not saying you have to channel your inner James Bond with a coat and a tie, always prioritize comfort over style, and wear something decent and suitable that makes you comfortable or else your date will notice any discomfort on your part.

Seventeen has a great article titled, so make sure you take a quick look before that first date: 12 First Date Outfits That’ll Have You Feeling Flirty and Fabulous.

Don’t Put a Façade!

Don’t give your date a false idea of yourself. Here comes the cliché you are tired of hearing “Be Yourself”. Don’t force yourself into wanting something you don’t or pretending you agree with your date even if you don’t.

Radiate Confidence.

You can do this by reminding yourself of your past achievements or the battles you have triumphed. Do anything before your date that can lift your spirit. By the time you are on your date, you will be a picture of confidence.

Be Positive and Smile!

Avoid negative thoughts and self-serving statements. As much as possible, focus on affirmative and engaging conversations, and don’t forget to smile because a smile goes a long way; it’s friendly, warm and inviting.

It’s just a date! Stop thinking about the outcome because you’ll lose focus, and you’ll end up doubting yourself and being pessimistic about everything. Instead, enjoy the experience because, as they say, it’s not all about the destination; it’s about the journey.